Egos are bad. And attitudes are also bad, especially when they interfere with the righteousness of our actions. Everybody makes mistakes: by bursting out in anger, by keeping their thoughts to themselves, by pointing people out, by not pointing people out, by accepting what is said without any resistance, by arguing about what is said. There is no right or wrong in life. Everything depends on the
way we think. What might be the perfect solution to a problem to somebody, might seem like gibberish to somebody else. In the end, it is our happiness that matters. That happiness comes by acceptance and by forgiveness. And that in turn comes by putting aside egos. A unit works its best only when there is harmony on the inside. In this small world, dysfunctional families do exist; but the truth is that their members are unhappy. They live a life choked with the black smoke of misunderstandings. The only way to lead a happy life is to not let any member of our family be stifled by this unfortunate air; by clearing out misunderstandings as soon as they erupt and not letting weeds impregnate our little green garden of joy.
amusing... life is absurd but beautiful... thare are no compartments of black and white... everything is homogenous with the disparites of layer... nor life is like shades of grey neither a rainbow.... life is what you make it and what you make OF it.... :)
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